"We live in digital time. Our rhythms are rushed, rapid fire and relentless, our days carved up into bits and bytes. We celebrate breadth rather than depth, quick reaction more than considered reflection. We skim across the surface, alighting for brief moments at dozens of destinations but rarely remaining for long at any one. We race through our lives without pausing to consider who we really want to be or where we really want to go. We're wired up but we're melting down.
Most of us are just trying to do the best that we can. When demand exceeds our capacity, we begin to make expedient choices that get us through our days and nights, but take a toll over time. We survive on too little sleep, wolf down fast foods on the run, fuel up with coffee and cool down with alcohol and sleeping pills. Faced with relentless demands at work, we become short-tempered and easily distracted. We return home from long days at work feeling exhausted and often experience our families not as a source of joy and renewal, but as one more demand in an already overburdened life.
We walk around with day planners and to-do lists, Palm Pilots and BlackBerries, instant pagers and pop-up reminders on our computers -- all designed to help us manage our time better. We take pride in our ability to multitask, and we wear our willingness to put in long hours as a badge of honor. The term 24/7 describes a world in which work never ends. We use words like obsessed, crazed and overwhelmed not to describe insanity, but instead to characterize our everyday lives. Feeling forever starved for time, we assume that we have no choice but to cram as much as possible into every day."
-Jim Loehr/Tony Schwartz, The Power of Full Engagement
So, you're judging their intentions by the way they look? Yeah, that makes sense. Once again, great self-indicting comments. I can't help but laugh as I look at the last several posts where you continue to condemn yourself. I don't know how you got to this pharisitical, judgmental, angry place but I hope that changes. This is getting sad to watch. Although like many other train wrecks, it's hard to look away.
Posted by: Christopher Sowers | October 29, 2007 at 07:41 PM
Wow-
fascinating comment, Chris.
Here's the thing- I was having a conversation with someone else today who made the same exact observation about your blog... I think he was right on the money too as it's getting a little weird over there.
But...
You putting this here makes me think that he may have left that comment there? And you thought it was me?
Nah...
But for the record, I miss you and hope that whatever corner you turned to get you in this spot where you've been the last couple of months gets unturned.
Posted by: Bob | October 30, 2007 at 07:24 AM